Adult ADHD in Women: Why It’s Often Missed
The Gender Gap in ADHD Diagnosis
Historically, ADHD research focused on hyperactive boys.
Girls often present with:
Inattentiveness
Internalized anxiety
Perfectionistic compensation
Emotional sensitivity
As a result, many women in Calgary are not diagnosed until adulthood.
Adult ADHD Symptoms in Women
In our SE Calgary therapy practice, women report:
Chronic overwhelm despite capability
Difficulty initiating tasks
Time blindness
Emotional dysregulation
Impulsivity in spending or communication
Difficulty sustaining routines
Many describe feeling “smart but scattered.”
ADHD vs. Anxiety vs. Burnout
ADHD can create secondary anxiety due to:
Missed deadlines
Forgetfulness
Overcommitment
Shame
If anxiety treatment alone hasn’t resolved patterns, ADHD may be worth exploring.
ADHD Therapy in SE Calgary
We support women through:
Executive functioning coaching
Habit stacking
Emotional regulation strategies
Nervous system regulation
Self-compassion work
Identity repair after years of masking
Understanding ADHD often reduces shame dramatically.